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The Bijou Chronicles

Blogs by Bijou Video personnel concerning sex, gay life, Chicago, politics and technology.

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Jul 16
2010

Ann Landers: The sage of masturbation

Posted by Scott Grunow in newsfeedhumorgay sexualitygay historyblogarticle

Who would have thought your "bubby" or "granny" or "nana" would condone masturbation? Much less even say the world, or even think about that "act" (definitely sinful "self-abuse," and so much more secret than that dreaded yet sinless marriage act that in order to endure one "should close one's eyes and think of England"). Everyone's Jewish grandmother, Ann Landers, whose popular columns often mirrored changes in social attitudes and norms, took a progressive stance in the late 70s.

By that time, the medical and psychological experts has pretty much adopted less judgmental and restrictive views about something that everyone, especially males, did. Anyone who denied pulling his pud ever would pretty much be outed as an obvious liar. Still, even if the more intellectually sophisticated classes would come to believe that masturbation was a healthy, even spiritual practice, most Americans could honestly call it the "act everyone does but no one speaks of." (Like the "[homosexual] love that dares not speak its name?".)  Thus, as late as 1993, Ann, by that time an iconic figure in American culture, citing experts to back up her views, felt the need to really tell Americans to "wake up and smell the coffee" on this issue. ann landers

Jul 08
2010

Pictures From the Black Dance: Exploring Power Images

Posted by Scott Grunow in pornleathergay sexualitygay imageryblogarticle

 

The viewer can of course enjoy this film as hot leathersex; I would argue it can also teach the viewer not only about some of the specific activities of gay BDSM participants, but about some of the fundamental power dynamics of the human condition. 

Apr 06
2010

One South African Man's Journey to IML

Posted by Administrator in south africanewsleatherjaco lourensimlchicagoblogbear

Jaco (L) and his husband Herman

Over Memorial Day Weekend, Chicago becomes a mecca for fetish enthusiasts and the furry crowd, with International Mr. Leather (IML) and Bear Pride. One man is making a long journey to compete in the ultimate leather contest, but his journey began a long time ago in a country on the other side of the globe. Jaco Lourens (pronounced "Jah-koo" as in Yahoo) will be the first South African leatherman to represent his country at IML, and, if he has his way, he will be the first of many South Africans who make the trek across the stage.

I caught up with Jaco and his husband Herman Groenewald over Skype to learn more about them.

Feb 02
2010

Female Orgasms and Macho Carpenters

Posted by Scott Grunow in vintage magazinesexblog

 PLAYGIRL IN 1974 

Sexyface, 70's styleIn 1974, besides President Nixon's resignation over the Watergate scandal and the making of the vintage porn classic Morning, Noon & Night (available only through Bijou Video), women were writing openly about their orgasms, and men were trying to be both macho and sensitive. The emphasis: a return to (really a reinterpretation of) of the "primitive" or "native," often associated with traditions outside of Western culture, as a source of self-healing and interpersonal interaction. A couple of Playgirl magazines from that year illustrate some of these cultural trends.

Dec 11
2009

Sex and Politics

Posted by Steven Toushin in pornpoliticsLGBT rightsgay sexualitygay historyfree speechblog

I have received emails from a few Bijou customers that have stated they do not come to the Bijou's website to read politics - they come for sex. If they want to read political opinions, they will read a news paper or watch a news show. So stop the political commentary or I won't be back to your site or buy your product for sex and politics don't mix.

You have the right not to read what I have written , you have the right to disagree, as you have the right not to come back to the Bijou site or buy from Bijou. I would argue most vehemently that sex and politics certainly do mix.

It seems that today because there is such a variety of sex to be viewed and so much cheap and free porn available that the sexual politics of government busting porn companies is yesterdays news (Bijou has over 200 busts in its history - the last problem with sexuality and the federal government was in April 2009). It also seems to me that the buying public, as well as many people in the adult industry are unaware of the anti-porn legislation that is constantly bringing brought up in Congress, as well as the legal issues of adult material that are before the courts in this country.

Most people also feel that if you are a sex company, you're not a legitimate business, you're not to be taken as seriously as, lets say, a clothing store, a car dealership, or a restaurant. Most peoples' attitude is “You're selling sex ferchrissake, it's not as if it has any social value - it's smut!



Sep 03
2009

Elizabeth was King, and Now James is Queen!

Posted by Scott Grunow in gay sexualitygay imageryblogarticle

Good Queen BessWith the growth of nationalism (which in this period also meant one state, one church), sodomy became an official civil as well as a religious crime "against nature" and the established social order. The philosopher Michel Foucault called this period a time of "confinement" or "enclosure." The new nation-states and a Church threatened by the effects of the Reformation thought it necessary to either imprison, exile, or eliminate whom they perceived to be threats. This was the period of the enforced confinement of the Jews in ghettos, the mandatory cloistering of often educated and powerful nuns, and the witch trials.

And the Protestant Reformers, by calling on the power of the state rather than the Church they broke away from, were often more rigorous in enforcing penalties against sexual aberrations. The patriarchal family structure they espoused left no room for unattached men or women. In England, the Reformation begun under Henry VIII manifested many of the above trends, especially the widening range of the civil power.

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